So Tell Me?

How do moms who have multiple kids manage to have a spotless house? And cook healthy meals 3 times a day? How do they do that? Do they have a magic wand and poof all gets done for them? Do they spend time with their kids? I just don't get it. I really really don't get it. I have dust bunnies growing, toys everywhere, clothes piling up, sticky finger prints, shredded paper that just been recently cut, dishes needing to be done, an insane fridge, let along my oven that is "still" waiting to get cleaned. I'm not complaining really, i like my life, the clutter doesn't really bother me too much. The time i get to spend with Andrew is much more important to me. But i do wonder, how do they do it?